DEFENSE
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DEFINITION
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EXAMPLE 1
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EXAMPLE 2
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Repression
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Restrict threatening information to the unconscious
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Not being able to remember the name of the person
you dislike
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Denial
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Not acknowledging threatening material
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Denying to yourself and others that you dislike
a particular person
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Intellectualization
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Focusing on technical aspects rather than emotions
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List off the mannerisms and transgressions of someone
you dislike
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Projection
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Perceiving negative aspects of self in others
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Start believing that the other person dislikes or
wants to harm you
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Reaction
Formation |
Negating an impulse by exaggerating its opposite
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Being really, really nice and generous to somebody
you dislike
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Rationalization
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Concocting a good reason for behaving badly
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Talk bad about the person you dislike so that
“others aren't taken advantage of by that person” |
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Displacement
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Expressing and unacceptable impulse toward a safe
target
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Spend time at martial arts class pretending your
sparring partner is the person you dislike
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Sublimation
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Transforming unacceptable impulses into valued products
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Writing intense poetry or painting an intense picture
expressing your dislike
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