DEFENSE
DEFINITION
EXAMPLE 1
EXAMPLE 2
Repression
Restrict threatening information to the unconscious
Not being able to remember the name of the person you dislike
Denial
Not acknowledging threatening material
Denying to yourself and others that you dislike a particular person
Intellectualization
Focusing on technical aspects rather than emotions
List off the mannerisms and transgressions of someone you dislike
Projection
Perceiving negative aspects of self in others
Start believing that the other person dislikes or wants to harm you
Reaction

Formation

Negating an impulse by exaggerating its opposite
Being really, really nice and generous to somebody you dislike
Rationalization
Concocting a good reason for behaving badly
Talk bad about the person you dislike so that

“others aren't taken advantage of by that person”

Displacement
Expressing and unacceptable impulse toward a safe target
Spend time at martial arts class pretending your sparring partner is the person you dislike
Sublimation
Transforming unacceptable impulses into valued products
Writing intense poetry or painting an intense picture expressing your dislike